No, it's
not because her pregnancy test has come back negative, because she is still in
her 2ww, and hasn't got her result as yet . It's because she's been very
disillusioned and disappointed by the quality of medical care which she has
received during her IVF treatment.
Her IVF
doctor has not shared any information with her - in fact, she hasn't even seen
the same doctor twice ! The only time she met the doctor was at the time of the
first consultation, when everyone was very sweet, and wanted her to pay her
fees, so they could start her treatment as soon as possible . Sadly, they were
more interested in collecting her fees, rather than in helping her to have a
baby !
During her
IVF treatment, every time she went to the clinic, she had to talk to a junior doctor,
a nurse, or an assistant , who had no clue about what was happening. The senior doctor was always busy – either she was travelling, or
was in the OT. She never bothered to return her phone calls, which meant that
she was in suspense throughout her cycle. When she asked questions, the
standard answer was, "We don't know. We will have to talk to the senior
doctor , and she will decide."
She didn’t even
know simple basics, such as how many follicles were seen during the ultrasound
scans; or how many eggs are collected; or what the quality of her embryos was.
Everything was mysterious, and completely opaque. This just made her even more anxious and concerned , because she
didn’t have any idea what was happening to her.
This is one
of the reasons why so many patients refuse to do a second IVF cycle - because
they've been so unhappy with the experience they've had with their first IVF
cycle.
In order to
prevent this tragedy, you need to do your homework, and go to the right clinic ,
so you have a happy experience. Good clinics routinely share information with
their patients; document all their treatment; and provide patients with photos
of their embryos as a standard practice.
Please
don’t allow an IVF doctor to cheat you – you have too much at stake !
You can
download the IVF comic book free at https://www.drmalpani.com/pdf/IVF_COMIC_BOOK.pdf
Or you can
send me your medical details by filling in the form at www.drmalpani.com/free-second-opinion
so that I can guide you !
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