IVF patients know that
one of the most important decisions they need to make is how to find the right
IVF Clinic .
This is a simple
3-step process . It’s tempting to take shortcuts and go to the nearest clinic,
or the cheapest one, but this can be dangerous !
First, you need to use
your head and deploy Information Therapy, so you understand your medical
diagnosis, and what your treatment options are. Do you need ICSI ? TESA ? donor
eggs ? Please don’t underestimate your own intelligence – you are smart, and if
you don’t understand what the doctor is saying, this means the doctor is too
dumb to explain it in simple language !
You then need to confirm the clinic provides this treatment. You can easily find this information online, or by email or a phone call, so use these tools to create a shortlist.
The next step is
harder. You need to use your heart , so you can judge which of the doctors you
have listed is right for you. This is where your gut feeling and intuition
become important !
The doctor who was right
for your friend may not be right for you – one size cannot fit all !
Let’s see a real life
example of how this works out.
Start by emailing the
clinic and see how quickly they respond to your emails. The other test of their
professionalism is to phone the clinic, and assess how helpful the secretary is.
Good doctors hire good receptionists, who treat patients with respect !
You only need to find
out the answer to a single medical question - do they routinely provide photos of embryos to
all their patients , and whether they do only blastocyst transfers . If they refuse
to answer this question, this in itself is a Red Flag , and you should
definitely stay away from the clinic ! If the receptionist doesn’t know what a
blastocyst is , this means the clinic is not a good one , because they haven’t
invested in educating their staff.
You need to short list
at least two IVF clinics , and then do a consultation with both. Interview the
doctor , so you can judge if the doctor will treat you with respect . Is the chemistry
between you and the doctor good ?
Thus, by checking both
the doctor’s competence as well as whether you like the way he thinks and
reassures you, you will be able to choose the clinic which is right for you.
Please don’t let someone else make this decision for you
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