One of the commonest problems that prevents couples
from having a baby is sexual dysfunction .
This includes
male issues such as premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, as well as
female issues such as vaginismus.
These are surprisingly
common, but because these are taboo topics , they are not discussed, and even
extremely well educated couples don’t know what they are suffering from.
This is
especially a major issue with vaginismus , because they don’t know which doctor
will be able to help them . Many gynecologists can be
surprisingly unkind , because they don’t know how to treat this
distressing problem.
Making the
diagnosis of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation is easy - it's a self diagnosis after all. However,
because of the psychological stress this causes , couples are often unwilling
to seek treatment for this . For one thing , the man feels very ashamed , and
the woman is reluctant to broach the topic because she doesn't want to hurt his
feelings . As a result of this mutual conspiracy of silence, the problem
festers, and they try to sweep the elephant in the room under the carpet, and
they will often not even talk about this to their doctor unless he asks
directly ( and most doctors fail to do this in a sensitive fashion, which means
patients hide the truth).
The tragedy is
that even though they may have completely normal fertility , they are not able
to get pregnant . Sexless unconsummated marriages are surprisingly common, but
because couples think they are the only ones having these issues , they don’t
talk about it, which makes the problem even worse,
because they don't know how to seek help and from whom.
Also, because it's such a touchy and sensitive issue, they are understandably reluctant to seek medical help !
If you take the
time and trouble to do your homework , you will be able to determine what the
problem is for yourself. While treating these problems can be surprisingly
difficult and complex, because the
underlying cause is psychological and not physical , the good news is that if
your primary goal is to have a baby , it's possible for you to solve the issue
by yourself by bypassing the problem and doing self insemination at home ,
which is simple , easy and inexpensive.
The even better news is that the pregnancy rates are extremely high , because there is no underlying fertility issue , especially if the wife is young !
Need help in getting pregnant ? Please
send me your medical details by filling in the form at www.drmalpani.com/free-second-opinion
so that I can guide you !
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